She didn’t hear me. She paced near the back gate, coat open, phone pressed close. I backed away, heart pounding. Were they planning something—an intervention, my finances, my divorce? Inside, I tried to act normal over coffee with Dad, but her whispered words—“She doesn’t know yet”—echoed in my mind all day. That night, I didn’t sleep. Mom had been acting strange all weekend—asking about my schedule, scanning the house like taking inventory. By Monday, I finally asked, “Who were you talking to yesterday?” She brushed it off, saying it was just an old friend. I didn’t believe her.
I called my sister, Nayla. After a pause, she asked, “Did Mom mention someone named Silvia?” Apparently, Mom had told her it was time someone gave Dad more… attention—and that Silvia was helping. My heart sank. I drove to their house and demanded the truth. Mom sighed and said, “Silvia isn’t Dad’s girlfriend—she’s our estate planner.”
Then it all came out. Dad’s memory had been fading, and they were preparing an “exit strategy.” They’d sold the house and planned to move to a retirement village near Tampa. They hadn’t told us sooner because they feared we’d stop them. I was devastated. That house was our anchor, especially after my divorce. But slowly, I understood.
The next weekend, we visited one last time—played dominos, cooked, laughed. It felt like childhood again. Then we found a folder of letters from Mom. Mine said, “We didn’t build a life to become a weight. We built it so you’d know when it’s time to build your own.” I wept.
Two months later, Silvia called about a “distribution.” Our parents had quietly sold an old property and left us each a share. I used mine to open a bakery—Sweetgum & Loaf. Now, when Mom texts, “She doesn’t know yet,” it’s about surprise visits or cakes. Turns out, they weren’t hiding from us—they were loving us, silently and completely.
