What Happened When I Bought a New Perfume—and Paid Attention to How I Felt #5

I decided to buy perfume with pheromones. I heard they drive men crazy. I sprayed it on me and went
to the mall. Men really were turning their heads. I thought, could it really be working? Suddenly, one
saleswoman came up to me and whispered, “You must tell me where you got that scent—it’s incredible!” Her voice wasn’t flirtatious or mischievous; it was the excited curiosity of someone who genuinely appreciated fragrances. For a moment, I blinked in surprise, expecting some dramatic revelation about the supposed power of pheromones. But instead, she smiled warmly and said she collected perfumes as a hobby. The unexpectedly wholesome conversation made me laugh at how seriously I had taken the myths behind the perfume. Still, the attention it drew from people around me—men and women—was undeniable. Maybe, I thought, it wasn’t magic at all but simply something in the fragrance that brought out a confidence I didn’t realize I had.

As I continued walking through the mall, I noticed something interesting: people weren’t staring with intensity or acting strangely—they were just…smiling at me. A man holding a coffee let me go ahead of him in line; a teenager complimented my jacket; even an elderly couple asked if I knew where the home décor store had moved. These weren’t the reactions of people “driven crazy,” but of people naturally responding to someone who appeared approachable. I began to understand that the perfume wasn’t altering the world around me—it was altering the way I carried myself. I felt taller somehow, lighter, almost as though the scent was tracing a thread of confidence through my posture and expressions.

The longer I stayed, the more I realized how small actions shape our interactions. When I smiled, people mirrored it. When I appeared calm, others approached with ease. When I walked with purpose, heads turned—but not out of infatuation; rather out of curiosity or admiration. I wandered into a bookstore, and while browsing, a staff member struck up a conversation about a novel I was holding. He asked what kinds of stories I liked, and we ended up discussing storytelling, creativity, and the little things that inspire people. It wasn’t flirtation—just an unexpectedly meaningful human exchange. And I realized that the day was becoming memorable not because of the perfume, but because I was letting myself be open to the world in a new way.

By the time I stepped outside, the sun was beginning to set, painting soft gold across the glass storefronts. I paused, taking in the warmth of the moment, and laughed quietly to myself. The perfume hadn’t cast a spell on anyone. It had simply nudged me into believing I could be noticed, appreciated, and worthy of connection. That belief changed everything. On my way home, I didn’t feel like someone testing a product or chasing attention—I felt like someone discovering her own presence for the first time. And, strangely enough, that was more powerful than any pheromone could ever promise.