One of my friends said that she was so broke, she wasn’t able to afford to eat for days. I always prepare my meals, so I offered to bring her some after work. I packed everything carefully, hoping it would give her a little relief. But just before I walked out the door, I noticed her Instagram post. She was out with friends at a café, smiling over a dessert she said she couldn’t afford.
At first, I felt confused and unsure how to react. I had made plans to help because I thought she truly needed immediate support. But I paused and reminded myself that people sometimes express their struggles in complicated ways. Photos don’t always show the full story. And moments of joy can still exist even when someone is feeling overwhelmed inside.
I reached out gently instead of assuming the worst. When we talked, she admitted she had been stressed and embarrassed about her situation. She said she exaggerated because she didn’t know how to express her worries honestly. The café visit was a small break she took to feel normal again, even if it wasn’t the most practical choice. Her honesty helped me see her situation more clearly and compassionately.
By the end of our conversation, we understood each other better than before. I still brought her the meals, but they were given out of kindness, not frustration. She thanked me for listening rather than judging, and we agreed to communicate more openly moving forward. That experience taught me that empathy often begins with patience—and that everyone manages their challenges in different ways.
