I was in a hair salon. A woman in her forties was sitting in the neighboring chair. They cut our hair, and she stares in my direction and keeps saying, “Oh, poor girl, such thin hair!” She keeps saying it again and again. At some point, I couldn’t stand it anymore, turned to her and said, “It’s okay. I lost most of it during my chemotherapy last year — so having any hair at all now feels like a blessing.”
The room went silent. Her face shifted from casual judgment to sudden realization. She lowered her eyes, clearly embarrassed, and whispered softly, “I… I didn’t know. I’m sorry.” I nodded gently, not out of bitterness, but understanding. I didn’t want to shame her — I just wanted her to understand that not everything someone assumes as a flaw is truly one.
My hairdresser gave my shoulder a reassuring squeeze and said with a warm smile, “And look at it now — it’s growing back beautifully.” I smiled back at my reflection. Thin, yes. But alive. My hair had become a symbol of strength, not weakness.
When the woman left, she stopped by my chair and said quietly, “Thank you for reminding me to be kinder with my words.” And in that moment, I realized something important: sometimes, people don’t need anger — they need perspective. A single moment of honesty can teach more than a thousand harsh responses ever could.
