I Charged My Stepkids for Water Bills — I’m Not Running a Free Resort

This summer was supposed to be quiet. Peaceful. Simple. But instead, it’s been chaos — and it started the second my stepkids arrived without warning.

I’m 30, married, and my husband has two children from a previous marriage. His ex? She’s always hated me. Said I was the reason they split, even though we didn’t meet until the divorce was already in motion. She’s never forgiven me. I’m pretty sure she’s passed that hatred down to her kids.

So imagine my shock when she suddenly dropped them off at our doorstep. No call. No heads-up. Just two kids, 6 and 10, with bags and big grins, like we were hosting summer camp. My husband had just lost his job, and we’d already told her we were struggling financially. Her response? “Don’t worry, I’ll keep things simple.”

Simple, my foot.

The next day, she pulls into our driveway with a pool — not a kiddie one, no. A giant, inflatable monstrosity you’d see at a hotel resort. Of course, the kids were ecstatic. And me? I didn’t want to be the evil stepmom, so I set it up, gritted my teeth, and hoped for the best.

That night, I barely slept. Something felt off. And the next morning confirmed it.

I stepped into the yard and my heart dropped. The pool was slashed open — water gushing across the lawn, soaking the basement windows. Mud everywhere. It looked like a flood zone. Then I saw the scissors lying in the grass. It wasn’t an accident. Someone did this.

Later, I overheard the older one whispering to the younger: “The plan worked. Mom’s gonna be so happy.”

That was the moment I broke.

I told them, “You’re paying for this. I don’t care if you’re 6 or 60 — I’m not running a free resort while you trash everything in sight.” The cleanup? On them. The water bill? On them. The lies? No more.

Their mother flew over, screaming at me like I’d committed a crime. Snatched the kids and stormed off. But for once, I didn’t feel guilty.

I’ve tried being kind. I’ve tried being patient. But I will not keep swallowing disrespect just to avoid the “evil stepmom” label. I’m not the villain here. I’m the one holding everything together while they tear it apart.

And honestly? I don’t know how much longer I can do it.